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Jewish weddings: the chuppah, the hora and when photographs happen
Words by Union in Frame
A Jewish wedding has its own order, and your photographer needs to know it. Here is the sequence from ketubah to hora, where the camera belongs and where it stays away, and how Shabbat and kosher catering shape your timings.
The ketubah and the bedeken come first
Much of a Jewish wedding happens before anyone reaches the chuppah. The ketubah, the marriage contract, is signed in a side room with the rabbi and your witnesses, often while guests are arriving. At many Orthodox weddings the groom’s tisch and the bride’s kabbalat panim run at the same time in separate rooms.
The bedeken follows, when the groom veils the bride. Reform and Liberal couples may veil each other or leave it out. These moments are quick and crowded, so tell your photographer which rooms they happen in and in what order.
Under the chuppah and breaking the glass
The ceremony takes place under the chuppah, a canopy on four poles, sometimes held by friends. Parents usually walk each of you in. Traditionally the bride circles the groom seven times, though some couples circle each other. Then come the blessings over wine, the ring, the ketubah reading and the seven blessings.
You will often face the rabbi with your backs to the guests, so your photographer needs a place to the side, agreed with the rabbi beforehand. The glass is broken in a second, to a shout of mazel tov, and cannot be repeated.
Yichud is private time without cameras
Straight after the ceremony, many couples go to a private room for yichud, a short time alone with the door shut. At Orthodox weddings two witnesses wait outside. If you have fasted, this is when you eat. No camera comes in, and no photographer should ask.
The gap is useful. Your photographer can cover guests during drinks, the room before it fills, and the moment you come out together. Couple portraits often follow yichud, so leave room for them in the timeline. Reform and Liberal couples may keep yichud or go straight to drinks.
The hora needs floor space and height
The hora often begins soon after you enter the reception, sometimes before anyone sits down. Guests form circles and you are lifted on chairs above them. It can run for a long time, and at Orthodox weddings men and women dance in separate circles, sometimes either side of a mechitza.
From floor level a camera mostly sees backs. Ask the venue for a balcony, a staircase or room for a safe stepladder, so the circles can be photographed from above. Keep the dance floor clear of tables and ask for some room light during the first set.
Shabbat timings and kosher venue logistics
A Saturday wedding cannot begin until Shabbat ends at nightfall. In a British winter that means a ceremony after dark, so portraits need indoor light. In midsummer Shabbat ends very late, so the ceremony starts later still and the party runs into the early hours. Sunday weddings keep ordinary daylight.
Kosher catering shapes the venue too. The kitchen must be kosher, or made kosher under supervision beforehand, which can affect access times and what food may be brought in, including supplier meals. At Orthodox weddings, ask what the photography team should wear.
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